Sunday, April 14, 2013

Positives and Negatives of Being Too Loyal

       Loyalty brings it's own positives and negatives into the world. Loyalty can or has a big impact on peoples lives. I believe that being too loyal isn't that good, I suggest to be loyal not TOO loyal. It's always good to be  loyal because many things can be earned such as trust, friendship, etc.

       There are many advantages of being loyal. Loyalty strengthens relationships. If you are loyal to someone   you can easily gain their trust and care. Let's say a you are having difficulties in your life, wouldn't you need someone to be there for you and care for you? Well, loyalty can help you do that easily. Loyalty is something that can make you care and have value towards something weather it's a object, human, or anything. So, I would strongly recommend to stay loyal to everyone, especially people close to you because you'll gain someones trust, which is very important in healthy relationships.

        Like I said in the beginning, loyalty brings positives and negatives. Well, there are always bad, careless, rude people in the world. Being too loyal is not very good. Some people will take your loyalty for granted. So, accepting everything they say can be harmful to you because they might be leading you to incorrect information. If your too loyal, then people will lie knowing that they'll get away of it and you have to acknowledge that some people will take you for granted. Here's an example, let's say that there is someone who you really like and want to become friends with them and the first thing that comes to your mind is be loyal, first. So, you are trying to be as loyal as possible and for some reason they don't want to be your friend then they'll slowly start to take advantage of you. They will go on with lies and lead you to the wrong path. So, be aware.

         After all, I would like to say loyalty is a great thing. Being loyal is very good, but I suggest don't be too loyal. Try to be loyal to everyone and see what response you get. But, be aware of those people who take you for granted. Be aware of those people who you want to make a positive relationship with because if your careless bad things will turn out.

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